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The Journal · Jewelry Care & Services

Jewelry Metals: Gold, Platinum and the Rest

What 14k really means, why white gold needs rhodium, how platinum wears, and what to know before choosing a tungsten or titanium band.

A ring is mostly metal. The diamond is what you look at, but the metal is what you feel every hour: its weight, its warmth, the way it has worn smooth where your thumb finds it.

Choosing it well takes a few plain facts. Here they are.

Gold, and what the karat means

Pure gold is 24 karat, and it is too soft to wear. So gold is mixed with other metals to make it strong, and the karat tells you how much of the piece is gold.

Karat Gold in it What that means on the hand
24k All of it Too soft for a ring
18k Three quarters Richer in color, a little softer
14k A little over half Harder wearing; the everyday choice
10k A little under half Harder still, and the palest in color

The surprise is that less gold wears harder. The metals mixed in are what give a ring its strength.

Those same metals give gold its color. Yellow gold is gold with copper and silver, the color gold has always been. Rose gold takes its blush from a larger share of copper. White gold is gold mixed with white metals, usually nickel or palladium. And there is a rarer green gold, made with silver, that carries a faint green cast and turns up in older pieces.

Why white gold wears a coat

White gold on its own is not quite white. It is a soft, warm white. The mirror-bright white you see in a case is rhodium, a metal of the platinum family, plated over the gold.

That coat wears. On a ring worn every day it lasts about one to two years, and then a little warmth shows through at the back of the band. Nothing is wrong with the ring. It goes back on the bench, is polished and plated, and comes home bright. That errand is rhodium plating.

Platinum

Platinum is white through and through. It is also dense: a platinum ring is noticeably heavier than the same ring in gold, and many people love it for exactly that.

It wears differently, too. When gold is scratched, a little metal is lost. When platinum is scratched, the metal moves aside and stays. Over the years the surface softens into a satin finish jewelers call patina, and it can be polished back to a mirror whenever you wish.

A piece marked 950 is 95 percent platinum. It is the usual choice for skin that reacts to other metals.

The diamond is what you look at. The metal is what you feel.

Palladium and silver

Palladium is platinum's lighter cousin: naturally white, strong, and much lighter in the hand. It is less common in the cases than it once was, but it remains a fine metal.

Silver is the softest of the precious metals. Sterling silver is 92.5 percent silver, stamped 925, with other metals, usually copper, added for strength. It darkens when it meets the sulfur in ordinary air, which is all tarnish is. Wear it often, keep it in a soft pouch when you do not, and it keeps its brightness longer.

Tungsten, titanium and cobalt

These are the modern metals, found mostly in men's bands. They are hard, they are affordable, and each comes with one thing to know.

Metal In the hand Good to know
Tungsten carbide Heavy, gray, almost impossible to scratch Generally cannot be sized. It is brittle, so a hard blow can crack it
Titanium Very light, gray Usually cannot be sized. Gentle on sensitive skin
Cobalt Bright white, mid-weight Usually cannot be sized like gold. A few people react to cobalt

Because they cannot be sized the way gold and platinum can, the size has to be right on the day. And if a hand ever swells in an emergency, tell the people helping you what the ring is made of: these metals take different tools to remove than gold does.

Reading the stamp

Turn a ring over and look inside the band. The small marks there are the metal's own record.

  • 10K, 14K, 18K: gold, by karat.
  • 950, PLAT or PT: platinum.
  • 925 or STERLING: sterling silver.
  • Gold filled, vermeil, plated: a layer of gold over another metal. These are not solid gold, and an honest seller says so.

Choosing

For a ring you will never take off, the choice usually comes down to three: 14k gold in the color you love, 18k if you want it richer, or platinum if you want white that stays white and a little weight in the hand.

For a wedding band in particular, the four you will be shown sit side by side in Wedding Band Metals, Compared. What the karat means for gold you already own is in What Your Old Gold Is Actually Worth.

The rest is feeling. Come to any of our three Tulsa showrooms and hold the same band in gold and in platinum, one in each hand. People are often surprised by which one they keep holding.

Good Questions

Is 14k or 18k gold better?

Neither is better; they are different. 18k is three quarters gold, so it is richer in color and a little softer. 14k has more alloy in it, which makes it harder wearing, and it is the practical choice for a ring worn every day.

Does white gold turn yellow?

It can look warmer over time. White gold is gold mixed with white metals and finished with a bright coat of rhodium. On a ring worn daily that coat wears in about one to two years, and the warmer metal beneath shows through. Re-plating brings the white back.

Platinum or white gold?

Platinum is white all the way through, heavier in the hand, and never needs plating; it takes on a soft patina instead. White gold costs less and is bright white when freshly plated, and it asks for re-plating now and then.

Which metal is best for sensitive skin?

Platinum and titanium are the usual choices. Some white gold contains nickel, which is the metal most people react to, so if your skin is sensitive, ask which alloy a piece is made of before you choose.

Can a tungsten or titanium ring be sized?

Generally not. Tungsten, titanium and cobalt usually cannot be sized the way gold and platinum are. Choose the size with care, and ask us before you buy.

What do the stamps inside a ring mean?

They state the metal. 14K and 18K are gold by karat. 950 or PLAT is platinum. 925 or STERLING is sterling silver. A maker's mark usually sits beside them.

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